3 Dating Secrets Every Man Should Know

It is unfortunate but as men we were not given manuals at birth nor were we taught in school on the intricacies of women and dating.

Simply put, men are basically taught nothing about women. It is a sad truth that many of us end up facing as we grow older.

The good news is that there are a few dating secrets out there that you can and must learn to greatly boost your dating life. And if you do not already know these simple secrets then it is high time that you did.

So do yourself a favor and learn a couple of these dating secrets.

1. Stop Trying to Impress Her

Here is a dating secret that most guys simply ignore. Women do not want their date to show off. Unless the two of you are in the third grade, stop trying to impress her. Do not look to her for approval. Basically, just be yourself. Do the things that you are good at and like to do simply because you like to do them.

If she likes you for who you are and how you act then great. If she does not then she is not meant for you, move on. Do not be the guy who acts unnatural and different around a woman you are not supposed to be with so as to simply impress her and get laid.

2. Do Not Over Share

Women do not want you to over share, especially early in the relationship.

Yes, this dating secret seems to go against all conventional wisdom, but it is true. Do not tell her about all your faults, fears and desires. This will only scare the hell out of her. You can let her in, but do not do it all at once, and definitely do not it too early.

Always strive to keep a sense of mystery around you. Being an open book from the get go will most likely lead to her getting bored with you quickly.

3. You Do Not Need Money, Power, Looks

Women do not expect to get a guy with Brad Pitt's looks or Trump's wallet. They would definitely like that but women are more realistic than most men give them credit for.

And while having those things is surely not bad at all, the fact is that not having them is not a deal breaker. In fact, most women are pretty reasonable. All they want is a guy who is genuine, who treats them well, makes them happy and who they are attracted to.

These are their only criteria.

Authors Bio

Ngure Kanjumba is an established author in the fields of dating and relationships with his articles targeted on advising and coaching men in the art of creating attraction with beautiful women around you & how to maintain and mold that attraction into long term satisfying relationships.