Considerations Among the Commitment Timeline

Many things affect the timing of marriage and commitment. Some people may feel that they need to get married because of their age. Others may just want to get out of being on the dating circuit. You need to identify what your true motives are for being a relationship. The following are somethings that motivate people to be in a committed relationship:

- Age is a big factor for number people. How old do you think you should be when you really settle down?

- when do you think he would like to have children? Many people take her biological clock into consideration and thinking about this. The majority of time it is only women, but it has been proven that men also have this father and urge and want on the commitment in order to start a family.

- but many people you may be tired of playing the field. They here are lots of emotional and financial resources. This can be a big drain on anyone.

- you could be experiencing pressure from her partner. Your partner may be threatening leaving if you don't commit.

- pressure doesn't only come from external resources, you could be putting lots of pressure on herself. Self-imposed pressure may come in the fear of loss. Is this a good basis for a relationship?

- their many people that experience pressure from family and friends. You may even get taunted by them on a regular basis. This is not very fun.

- threatening events can make you reevaluate your life. And to make you realize how short life really is to make you want to be in a committed relationship.

- just like life-threatening events, the same things can happen with new beginnings. A friend's wedding or child being born to motivate you to cherish moments in life and make you want to participate in the joy.

Whatever your motive is for being a relationship be sure to be true to yourself and your mate. Be sure that you recognize some of these reasons are fleeting and may not last forever. Relationships are work be sure you know your "why."