Getting a man in love with you can't be that hard, can it? It's actually not. Most women rely on the old standard fate to help them capture the heart of the man they want. The big problem with that approach is that another woman can step right into the middle of that picture before fate has a chance to use its charm. You need to be proactive when it comes to winning the heart of a man. You have to go for it and do whatever it takes to get him to want you as much as you want him.
Here are 7 sure-fire tips for getting a man in love with you:
Be super confident. Most of us are lacking in one way or another when it comes to self confidence. There are things about ourselves we wish we could change. Don't let him see that. You want the man you're interested in to see you as someone who is super happy with herself and all her flaws. Embrace the real you and he will too.
Be honest. Don't try and put on airs to impress him. It's not going to work. He'll see right through your veiled attempts to knock him off his feet. Present yourself exactly the way you are and always be genuine. He'll actually find it incredibly refreshing.
Be fun. No one wants to spend all their time around a drama queen. There's no fun to be hand there. Leave your worries at home and let him see you smile and laugh. The more fun you have together, the more time he'll want to spend with you.
Be kind. Not enough is said about the power of kindness. Men want this quality in a woman. They crave it. They love being around someone who is good to others and that includes all others. If he sees you offering a helping hand to someone at the grocery store, or he notices you being extra polite to the wait staff at a restaurant, you'll own his heart.
Don't be jealous. As much as we wish it weren't the case, the world will always be filled with attractive other women. He's going to look sometimes and he may even have a few pretty friends. Don't let jealousy take over, ever. He'll see it as a sign of your lack of self esteem and that's completely unattractive to every man.
Be adventurous. If you're the type who likes to sit at home watching television, you have to step outside your comfort zone. Plan something spontaneous that the two of you can do together. Surprise him from time-to-time. He'll absolutely love it.
Be supportive. All men long to be with women who need them. As self sufficient as you are, let him be there for you sometimes. He wants and needs that. Ask him to help you with small tasks and support him in the same way. If you can create a balance of give and take, he'll want to give as much of himself to you as he possibly can.
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