Have you ever liked someone and wondered how to get the guy to approach you? Do you wish he would stop staring and get over here already? Why won't he come over!?!?
Maybe that's the problem, you're getting frustrated that it shows on your face; it shows on your hands, how you sit and how you stare back at him. It shows when you cross your legs or your arms, how you tap your foot on the floor, or fidget with your hair.
Are you sitting still, smiling and waiting patiently? Or are your eyebrows furrowed and your face practically screams impatience? Easy girl, keep it cool or he'll never approach you and you'll end up with nothing but a staring contest.
Mind your expression and body language
Women are not the only ones who get shy and nervous when they're trying to approach someone or make the first move. Men would also feel uneasy and have this fear of being turned down. That's probably why they want to make sure you're friendly and approachable before they make their move.
Try not to intimidate him so he'll feel less nervous when he approaches you. Project a positive and sincere attitude through your facial expressions and body language. Put him at ease with your smile and make eye contact with him. Smiling is a great way to invite him to come to you and to say "It's okay, I won't bite."
Don't add to his nervousness by frowning or scowling, fidgeting in your seat or crossing your arms. Those are all signs of impatience and restlessness, and it will make him too intimidated to approach you. Body languages are like unspoken words. It tells a person your mood and whether or not it's safe to approach you - let alone talk to you.
Being positive and sincere is one of the best tips on how to get the guy to approach you. As long as you project a sincere smile and good body language, then your guy won't be able to resist you. He knows there's a chance you won't turn him down and he actually has a shot of getting to know you. Who knows? He might even be Mr. Right who you've been searching for.
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