Women - Don't Settle Just Because You Feel Your Biological Clock is Ticking

Women tend to feel like they are in a rush to settle down, get married, and start having children. I've seen many women that start to panic at the young age of 25 if they are not in a solid and strong relationship heading towards marriage and kids.

Now, I can understand that some women have planned this out since they were young.

Some women ideally want to be married by 21, kids by 23, and kids moving out by 41 when you still feel young enough to do crazy things in your life.

Personally marriage has never mattered much to me and kids are not even on my radar so I don't have that pressing need but I still understand why women think that way.

Let me tell you why even though your mind may be telling you that "he's not perfect but he'll do, I can't afford to wait any longer", it should be really telling you to grab your purse and get out of there before you can say I do.

First of all, this may be something that is pressing you as urgent right now but you also have to think about twenty years down the line.

You may get married and have kids and be happy for a short time but if have settled with a guy just because you didn't think you can do better, then you are not going to be as happy as you could potentially be if you found a man that you are head over heels for and a man that makes you feel happier then you have ever felt before.

Twenty years down the road you will be married with kids but unhappy or somewhat happy instead of absolutely enjoying every drop of life that you can to the fullest.

And that's just one scenario of settling for a man because of you biological clock screaming at you to.

I've seen women get into relationships with absolute jerks. I mean these men do not provide one ounce of happiness to their woman but they do provide some sperm and a husband. Ridiculous.

I've seen these same women get beat down literally, quite literally for some, as well as beat down in life. They have their children, become miserable beings, and end up just dragging themselves through life every day. How is that a compromise for having a husband and children?

Give away your life and happiness for it? Take away your strength and happiness for it?

These are intelligent woman that are being pressured by family, culture, friends, TV, guilt, and their bio-logical clock!

In the end you have to remember that you life is about today and tomorrow and not just about the pressure you feel at this precise moment.

Have faith that you will have a perfect man, and when you find him he will give you those children you want.

And you will live happily every after.